The Rise of the Matriarchy©

SHETERNITY Presents: The Rise of the Matriarchy ©

Written By: Empress Cheiftess 

      About The Author, Empress Cheiftess

From the crucible of Washington, D.C., I emerged—Mother, Grandmother, Homeschool teacher, a tapestry woven with threads of diverse experience. 

My journey has taken me from the hallowed halls of Howard University’s College of Pharmacy, through the rigorous studies at Ohio Northern’s Raabe College of Pharmacy, and finally to the integrative embrace of the University of Maryland’s (Tai Sophia College of Herbal Medicine).

I stand as a retired Commander in the Uniformed Services, a Disabled Veteran, my service etched into my very being. 

I am Empress Cheiftess, Farmer, and a fiercely devoted Moroccan Queen, a first-generation practitioner of the ancient art of Matriarchy.

I offer these reflections as seeds for future dialogue, a shared exploration of healing, a collective dismantling of patriarchal structures, and a rediscovery of love’s power to elevate a fallen humanity. 

For in the uplifting of woman, humanity itself is uplifted. This, I believe, is a truly revolutionary act.

I am deeply grateful for this opportunity to share with you my thoughts, intuitions, and hard-won conclusions regarding the resurgence of Matriarchy and the profound depths of the Female Experience.

When I speak of Matriarchy, I envision a societal structure governed by women—ideally, women of moral strength and wisdom. The "Female Experience," as I understand it, necessitates a focused and profound attention from men, a deep listening required to truly comprehend the essence of womanhood.

Who should read this paper?

EVERYONE. Because He is in SHE. He is in HER. We are ONE. 

What is a Matriarchy?

Matriarchy, at its core, is a system where lineage and kinship are traced through the Female bloodline. It embodies the power and wisdom of the elder woman, the Matriarchy, within family or community. 

This is a subject that resonates deeply within me, for I believe its principles offer a path toward healing and transformation. I see the potential for a profound restructuring and reprogramming of our understanding of honor, respect, sacrifice, accountability, family, cultural relations, and the sacred bond of Matrimony.

Hard Truths, What is Husbandry?

Regarding family, it is crucial to recognize that the marital bond does not necessarily equate to absolute familial connection. Spouses become part of the family structure based on their commitment to the roles and responsibilities inherent in a Matriarchal system. The concept of "Husbandry," as the careful cultivation and management of resources (like a farmer), takes on new meaning within this context. 

Indeed, in sharing these thoughts, I am acting as a "husband" of sorts, nurturing and tending to these ideas.

Wait, Wife? Wifi? What!

Similarly, "Wifery," the state of being a wife, becomes more than a mere title. The interchangeable vowels in the word "wife" (wifa, WIFI, wifo, wifu, wify) hint at the fluidity of the role, now often occupied by Artificial Intelligence. 

"Befitting," the quality of being appropriate, defines the actions and responsibilities of "Wifery." And "Mid-Wifery," the art of assisting in childbirth, becomes a powerful symbol of the inherent knowledge and strength of women.

Grand Matriarch

Within different Matriarchies, these roles may be defined and expressed uniquely, reflecting the specific needs and vision of the Matriarch or Grand Matriarch. A clear hierarchy, established by the Matriarch, guides the community. Over time, these roles have been reduced to mere performances, obscuring the true essence of Matriarchy.

Holy Matri..mony?

The alarmingly high rate of failure in traditional marriages compels us to examine the very foundations of Holy Matrimony and family, particularly through the lens of Mitochondrial DNA. Many of us, immersed in various social groups and cultural indoctrinations, enter into vows of Holy Matrimony without a true understanding of their meaning. This has contributed to a decline in the love, support, and active participation of Matriarchal family members—those individuals who prioritize the well-being of the family unit. But how do we identify these crucial members? 

The answer lies within their shared Mitochondrial DNA.

What is Mitochondrial DNA?

Mitochondrial DNA, a circular chromosome residing within the mitochondria of our cells, is the powerhouse of cellular energy and metabolic function. Aboriginal women holding the oldest and longest strands of Mitochondrial DNA, carry their ancient bloodlines back to the beginning of the time. 

Energy, as we know, is neither created nor destroyed, only transformed—a transformation that can be perilous if it shifts from love to hate. This vital DNA is passed down through the Maternal Bloodline. A Mother bestows her Mitochondrial DNA upon all her children, thus perpetuating her Matriarchal lineage. While both daughters and sons inherit this DNA, only daughters can transmit it further, extending the Matriarchal bloodline. 

Sons, while contributing to the lineages of other Matriarchies, do not extend their own Maternal Bloodline.

Within the intricate tapestry of lineage, a child shares an undeniable bond with their Mother, a connection woven through the thread of Mitochondrial DNA. This same thread links them to every woman who has come before, and every woman yet to come, in their Maternal Bloodline. 

Each daughter is born with a finite reservoir of potential life, a legacy of eggs capable of populating generations. And within each grandmother resides the potential for generations yet unborn, the unhatched lives of her daughters' daughters, and their daughters after them.

Grandma’s Baby?

Is this not a profound testament to the interconnectedness of life, a chain of being where children and grandchildren are immersed in the earthly experience, nurtured by the wisdom and love of their grandmothers? 

Does this not give new meaning to the phrase, "Thus, Grandma's baby"? What does it mean for a child to be so deeply rooted in the past, and so inextricably linked to the future, through the enduring presence of their Maternal ancestors?

Members of the Matriarchy 

Within a Matriarchal structure, the care and security of elders and children are paramount. Every member has a role to play, with women holding the duty to serve and protect the Matriarch. 

Men, functioning as "husbands" (number undetermined) defined by their actions, not simply by marriage, contribute to the Matriarchy through service, protection, and the provision of all that is necessary for its health and prosperity.

Unconstrained by patriarchal systems that often oppress women, a woman within a Matriarchy could potentially give birth to numerous children by different fathers. Regardless of the biological father, the offspring belongs to her and, by extension, to the Matriarchy. 

A woman's worth is not diminished or enhanced by her choice of partner in procreation; this is the wisdom of nature. 

Therefore, there is no justification for the abortion of any child, as all children belong to the Matriarchy. This does not negate the importance of husbands. Rather, it emphasizes the need for husbands who can love, honor, and respect the Mother in Holy Matrimony, and who ultimately serve the greater good of the Matriarchy.

Okay, What is Patriarchy?

Patriarchy, a system where the father or eldest male reigns supreme, tracing lineage through the male line (if a sire can be identified), limits familial descent. Power resides with men, while women are largely excluded. But let us consider the profound realities of Motherhood.

What Happens to a Woman’s Body?

Mothers, Sistars, we now understand: "We" are not pregnant; you are pregnant. "We" do not have his baby; we have our baby. And it is you who will risk your life nurturing that life within your body, enduring the perilous journey of childbirth. 

The journey of creating life within the womb is a profound transformation, a delicate dance between two beings, Mother and Child! From the moment of conception, a new story begins. In the first trimester, the seed of life, the zygote, takes root, and begins downloading Matriarchal intelligence, establishing its foundation. 

The neural pathways, the very architecture of mind and consciousness, begin to download. 

Organs emerge, tiny limbs bud, and a heartbeat, a whisper of existence, becomes audible. Simultaneously, the Mother experiences a symphony of hormonal shifts, a cascade of morning sickness, tender breasts, fatigue, cravings, aversions, and fluctuating moods. Her body becomes a vessel of change, a testament to the miracle unfolding within.

The second trimester brings further metamorphosis.

The Mother's body expands, accommodating the growing life. New physical sensations arise: vaginal discharge, heartburn, constipation. Emotionally, a wave of renewed energy and excitement may wash over her, or perhaps anxiety and shadows of depression. The fetus, now capable of hearing, seeing, and tasting, continues to develop. Movement stirs within, a flutter of kicks and punches, a tangible connection to the life taking shape. 

The Mother's world becomes a whirlwind of doctor's appointments, insurance challenges, screenings, and tests—a hectic yet sacred time.

In the final trimester, the crescendo of growth. The baby prepares for its entrance into the world, positioning itself for birth. The Mother's body carries the weight of this burgeoning life, experiencing increased urination, swelling, backaches, Braxton-Hicks contractions, stretching skin, and shortness of breath. Nesting instincts arise, a primal urge to prepare the space for the new arrival. 

Doctor visits become more frequent, labor and delivery classes are attended, and the importance of hydration, healthy diet, rest, and fetal movement monitoring is paramount.  Mother’s mental, emotional, and spiritual body is working overtime!

Yet, beyond the physical and emotional changes, there are deeper, often unspoken challenges. Abuse, neglect, and the gnawing weight of hopelessness can cast a dark shadow over this sacred time.

We can only imagine the true horrors of navigating pregnancy without the support and wisdom of a functioning Matriarchy, a community of women to share knowledge, offer support, and celebrate the miracle of life. The absence of such a structure can leave Mothers vulnerable, navigating this profound journey alone, without the collective wisdom and strength that has sustained women for generations.

And even beyond birth, there is the often-painful commitment of breastfeeding. The long-term impact of childbirth on mind, body, and spirit remains largely unknown, a mystery carried by each woman.  

Forever Body Modifications 

Evidence of childbirth, even after death, is often visible through skeletal changes known as parturition scars. These include dorsal pubic pitting, the preauricular sulcus, and modifications to the pubic symphysis and other parts of the pelvis. Parturition scars are permanent skeletal changes on the pelvic bones—such as pits, grooves, and bone spurs—formed as a result of labor. Dorsal pubic pitting refers to depressions on the inner surface of the pubic bone, while the preauricular sulcus presents as grooves or depressions on the ilium, the upper part of the hip bone.

These are lasting marks—physical evidence etched into the bones—that speak to the immense transformation a woman’s body undergoes during childbirth. They result from the stretching and tearing of tissues, muscles, and ligaments, leaving an enduring imprint. Ultimately, these changes reflect not only the physical demands of birth but also the spiritual, mental, and emotional journey women experience in bringing life into the world.

Introduction of the Female Experience

The question of paternal participation in the profound Female Experience of pregnancy remains a complex one. While the biological connection may be evident, the spiritual, emotional, financial, and cultural dimensions are less clearly defined. There is, as yet, no universally established framework of hardship, no codified set of biological, spiritual, emotional, financial, or cultural changes that would compel or prescribe a father's intimate involvement in every aspect of the pregnant person's journey.

This absence of a clear mandate raises profound questions about the existence of shared Female Experience, responsibility, and the evolving dynamics of family.  

The landscape of pregnancy and childbirth is not one of equal sharing between Mother and father. 

It is NOT Man BASHING!

The Mother's role is distinctly different, profoundly significant, and undeniably burdensome—before, during, and after the transformative journey of gestation and birth. 

Her experience is magnanimous in its scope and impact. 

Conversely, to date, there is no comparable evidence of negative side effects impacting fathers in the same way!!!

If such evidence exists, it warrants exploration and discussion, for a true understanding of this complex dynamic requires a consideration of all perspectives.

From the moment of conception, the developing life draws upon your very essence. 

The profound exchange between Mother and developing life during pregnancy remains, in many ways, an enigma. 

While we understand the broad strokes of biological exchange, the sheer totality of what a fetus extracts from its Mother during gestation remains largely unknown, a mystery whispered in the language of cells and hormones. A micro-cellular mystery!

We can only speculate on the intricate dance of nutrients, the subtle shifts in the Mother's physiology, and the unseen sacrifices made to nurture the nascent life within. 

The full extent of this giving, this profound investment of self, remains a secret held close by the very nature of creation.

What does the Data Show?

Our blood becomes a living record, as evidenced by a non-invasive pre-natal paternity test (NIPP) which analyzes the fetal DNA that is present in the Mother’s blood and compares to the potential father’s DNA from his cheekswab, as early as 5 weeks of pregnancy. 

Mothers are carrying the genetic imprints of both the fetus and its father. 

As Chaka Khan sang, "I'm every woman, it's all in me"—and indeed, it is all in you. 

Only you can bear the ultimate price: birthing, breastfeeding, and navigating the often-challenging postpartum experience. The reality is stark: many women die during pregnancy.

The statistics are sobering. In 2020, the global maternal mortality rate was estimated at 224 deaths per 100,000 live births. These deaths are caused by a range of complications, from hemorrhage and infections to preeclampsia, eclampsia, and complications of labor, delivery, miscarriage, and unsafe abortions. 

This grim tally does not include deaths due to domestic violence or intimate partner violence during pregnancy.

Eclampsia, a rare but critical emergency, can cause seizures or coma. Preeclampsia, marked by high blood pressure and protein in the urine, can arise after 20 weeks of pregnancy. 

The toll on women is immense, and the exhaustion is palpable. 

The increasing reliance on donor insemination, with nearly half a million women using it in recent years, speaks to the changing landscape of family creation.

Within a conscious and functioning Matriarchy, women could potentially expand their capacity to bring life into the world. Instead of the current average of 1 to 2.5 children per Mother, the number could become limitless, allowing women to fully embrace their power as life-givers—the most challenging and sacred role on Earth.

Thank you for reading.

I offer these reflections, shared through the generous encouragement of

→ Waverly Sr., AAHCC 

Daughter, Mother of Four, Certified Birthing Educator, Licensed Life & Health/Accident Insurance Producer and CEO of www.SHETERNITY.com. 

SHETERNITY provides lifestyle products and services like Virtual Childbirth Classes, Financial Services and Workplace Employment Benefits Services.  

→ Ambassador Sheikh Imam Akbar

A courageous revolutionary, National Chairman and Leader of the New Black Panthers Party, a man of unwavering dedication to the upliftment of humanity, particularly women and children across the globe and a very strong advocate of Matriarchal principles.

May these words ignite countless conversations and gatherings among us, a collective drawn from every facet of the “Matriarchal Family/Birth“ experience. 

It is through our unified efforts, our shared commitment to outreach, recruitment, and the struggle for freedom, that we can usher in the era of the Rise of the Matriarchy. 

This resurgence will bring about a profound betterment for our elders, our children, and the delicate balance of relationships between women and men.

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